Can my desire for sex be the cause of our problems?

Most men think like you. I know my husband has nasty thoughts about women in the grocery store it is written all over his face. Does he act on it no. You guys are just wired that way. You have no control over what other men think of your wife. Stop getting so jelouse she is loving it to much and likes that you are getting jelouse. She also is probably making up stories as well.